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		<title>By: Michelle Malkin &#187; Why I bawled my eyes out on a plane</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-381301</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Malkin &#187; Why I bawled my eyes out on a plane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 19:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] remember I linked the amazing video of Professor Pausch&#8217;s last lecture, &#8220;Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams,&#8221; in [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Hot Air &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Video: The dying professor&#8217;s lasting legacy</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-261919</link>
		<dc:creator>Hot Air &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Video: The dying professor&#8217;s lasting legacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] the Carnegie Mellon University professor dying of pancreatic cancer whose farewell lecture became a viral video hit. KCAL9 has a follow-up on his latest efforts in southern California to help raise funds for [...]</description>
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		<title>By: bvw</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-134986</link>
		<dc:creator>bvw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Sep 2007 12:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Michelle, without self-search, a &quot;new message to you&quot; flag blogs such as yours are not a public discussion, they are the emperor&#039;s cheering section.   While it&#039;s nice to be King it doesn&#039;t advance the discussion much.  What you have developed here -- as this thread shows -- is a gang posse&#039;s attitude, not evolving discussion.

That&#039;s why I&#039;ll stay at the places that DO allow full public participation, like FR, at least until you and the other bloggers open it up.

There on FR at least a reasoned minority opinion has a chance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michelle, without self-search, a &#8220;new message to you&#8221; flag blogs such as yours are not a public discussion, they are the emperor&#8217;s cheering section.   While it&#8217;s nice to be King it doesn&#8217;t advance the discussion much.  What you have developed here &#8212; as this thread shows &#8212; is a gang posse&#8217;s attitude, not evolving discussion.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I&#8217;ll stay at the places that DO allow full public participation, like FR, at least until you and the other bloggers open it up.</p>
<p>There on FR at least a reasoned minority opinion has a chance.</p>
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		<title>By: ArmywifeArmymom</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133480</link>
		<dc:creator>ArmywifeArmymom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 02:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh and that should read &quot;Even the threat of death can not steal your determination.&quot; Doh!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh and that should read &#8220;Even the threat of death can not steal your determination.&#8221; Doh!</p>
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		<title>By: ArmywifeArmymom</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133479</link>
		<dc:creator>ArmywifeArmymom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 02:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;“Brick walls are there for a reason. They let us prove how badly we want things.”

What an amazing statement.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Yes it is! I saw this video here shortly after I had hung the phone up with my husband and jokingly told him that I would be beating my head against a brick wall if he needed me for anything. 

We are facing what feels like insurmountable troubles right now with a serious bone fracture injury during OCS training. Also one week to the day prior my son called from Iraq to report he would be the getting a Purple Heart... not what I wanted to hear. 2 soldiers, 2 wounds, 1 week, and my husband&#039;s is career threatening. Thank God my son&#039;s was minor. 

Brick walls, huh? I guess my guys must really want to be soldiers since they decided to plow forward and straight through the mess. 

I do think that it is an incredibly wonderful gift that this man is giving his children. They will be able to look back on his videos and see their dad reminding them that even death can not steal your determination.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>“Brick walls are there for a reason. They let us prove how badly we want things.”</p>
<p>What an amazing statement.</p></blockquote>
<p>Yes it is! I saw this video here shortly after I had hung the phone up with my husband and jokingly told him that I would be beating my head against a brick wall if he needed me for anything. </p>
<p>We are facing what feels like insurmountable troubles right now with a serious bone fracture injury during OCS training. Also one week to the day prior my son called from Iraq to report he would be the getting a Purple Heart&#8230; not what I wanted to hear. 2 soldiers, 2 wounds, 1 week, and my husband&#8217;s is career threatening. Thank God my son&#8217;s was minor. </p>
<p>Brick walls, huh? I guess my guys must really want to be soldiers since they decided to plow forward and straight through the mess. </p>
<p>I do think that it is an incredibly wonderful gift that this man is giving his children. They will be able to look back on his videos and see their dad reminding them that even death can not steal your determination.</p>
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		<title>By: bvw</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133315</link>
		<dc:creator>bvw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 16:05:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>gsp, Charmed, I am sure.  And, btw, speak for yourself.  Can you?  Or are you afraid to engage without claiming everyone else has your thoughts -- *we* call that the &quot;imaginary army&quot; approach to discussion.

I&#039;m using the Imperial &quot;we&quot;.  I mean &quot;me&quot;.  

*We* see we have run afoul of your belief systems.  The nasty, vicious and ad-hominem reaction is an strong indication that *we&#039;ve* cut certain cherished yet false beliefs to the core.

What could they be?  Think on that and answer without acrimony and bitterness if you can.  It seems the bitterness you ascribe to *us* is your own, sir.   The nastiness of responses is the tell.

Ad Hominem: 
http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>gsp, Charmed, I am sure.  And, btw, speak for yourself.  Can you?  Or are you afraid to engage without claiming everyone else has your thoughts &#8212; *we* call that the &#8220;imaginary army&#8221; approach to discussion.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m using the Imperial &#8220;we&#8221;.  I mean &#8220;me&#8221;.  </p>
<p>*We* see we have run afoul of your belief systems.  The nasty, vicious and ad-hominem reaction is an strong indication that *we&#8217;ve* cut certain cherished yet false beliefs to the core.</p>
<p>What could they be?  Think on that and answer without acrimony and bitterness if you can.  It seems the bitterness you ascribe to *us* is your own, sir.   The nastiness of responses is the tell.</p>
<p>Ad Hominem:<br />
<a href="http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/ad-hominem.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: gunslingerpatriot</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133261</link>
		<dc:creator>gunslingerpatriot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 13:55:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bvw-
Nice link/sarc on.  What a poor and pityful man(or woman) you are with a soul that is dark with hate and where beauty can&#039;t thrive.

There is nothing any of the bloggers can say to change you, but only Yahweh can reach the depth of your blackened soul.  Either you can come to Him as a friend or face Him as your judge, and believe that the followers of Yahweh on this blog will be judged to have been &quot;good and faithful servants&quot; for reaching out in Christian love to you and DD.  

Professor Randy Pausch will be missed, and Michelle is to be commended for bringing his story to light, and will continue to keep Dr. Pausch&#039;s family in my prayers.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bvw-<br />
Nice link/sarc on.  What a poor and pityful man(or woman) you are with a soul that is dark with hate and where beauty can&#8217;t thrive.</p>
<p>There is nothing any of the bloggers can say to change you, but only Yahweh can reach the depth of your blackened soul.  Either you can come to Him as a friend or face Him as your judge, and believe that the followers of Yahweh on this blog will be judged to have been &#8220;good and faithful servants&#8221; for reaching out in Christian love to you and DD.  </p>
<p>Professor Randy Pausch will be missed, and Michelle is to be commended for bringing his story to light, and will continue to keep Dr. Pausch&#8217;s family in my prayers.  <img src='http://michellemalkin.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Around The ‘Sphere September 23, 2007 &#183; Articles</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133225</link>
		<dc:creator>Around The ‘Sphere September 23, 2007 &#183; Articles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 07:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] A Lesson Before Dying: Read all of the links. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: The Moderate Voice</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133217</link>
		<dc:creator>The Moderate Voice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 07:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Around The &#8216;Sphere September 23, 2007...&lt;/strong&gt;


Our linkfest offering readers a Hometown Buffet of links to blogposts from websites of many different viewpoints. Linked posts do NOT necessarily reflect the opinion of TMV or its writers.

COLUMBIA&#8217;S DEAN GETS IN MORE POLITICAL HOTWATER: As the...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Around The &#8216;Sphere September 23, 2007&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Our linkfest offering readers a Hometown Buffet of links to blogposts from websites of many different viewpoints. Linked posts do NOT necessarily reflect the opinion of TMV or its writers.</p>
<p>COLUMBIA&#8217;S DEAN GETS IN MORE POLITICAL HOTWATER: As the&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: The Moderate Voice</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133218</link>
		<dc:creator>The Moderate Voice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 07:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Around The &#8216;Sphere September 23, 2007...&lt;/strong&gt;


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COLUMBIA&#8217;S DEAN GETS IN MORE POLITICAL HOTWATER: As the...</description>
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		<title>By: The Moderate Voice</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133219</link>
		<dc:creator>The Moderate Voice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 07:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Around The &#8216;Sphere September 23, 2007...&lt;/strong&gt;


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		<title>By: bvw</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133212</link>
		<dc:creator>bvw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 06:04:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On Free Republic, and there with more decency in reply from those those having alternate viewpoints.

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/1899853/posts</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Free Republic, and there with more decency in reply from those those having alternate viewpoints.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/1899853/posts" rel="nofollow">http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/1899853/posts</a></p>
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		<title>By: otcconan</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133042</link>
		<dc:creator>otcconan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 14:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome, Michelle.  Items like this really hit close to home for me right now, having recently lost my father to a sudden, massive stroke.  I think about how he lived his life, and the fact that though he died unexpectedly, he really had no reason for regrets.  

That&#039;s the lesson I took from him...we think that maybe, I can afford to be mean or rude to someone because I can make it up some other time.  I can let someone down because maybe later I&#039;ll make it up to them.  Well, sometimes you won&#039;t have that time to do it in.  You make everything count, and never have to worry about how you&#039;ll be remembered.  We don&#039;t all get second chances...it&#039;s best to make the first one count whenever you can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome, Michelle.  Items like this really hit close to home for me right now, having recently lost my father to a sudden, massive stroke.  I think about how he lived his life, and the fact that though he died unexpectedly, he really had no reason for regrets.  </p>
<p>That&#8217;s the lesson I took from him&#8230;we think that maybe, I can afford to be mean or rude to someone because I can make it up some other time.  I can let someone down because maybe later I&#8217;ll make it up to them.  Well, sometimes you won&#8217;t have that time to do it in.  You make everything count, and never have to worry about how you&#8217;ll be remembered.  We don&#8217;t all get second chances&#8230;it&#8217;s best to make the first one count whenever you can.</p>
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		<title>By: Heartland Perspective</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-133037</link>
		<dc:creator>Heartland Perspective</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 14:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;A lesson before dying...Your Friday morning inspiration.&quot;

A month ago I traveled to see my favorite aunt who was dying from ovarian cancer.  I wanted to say goodbye.  She wanted to see me.  She had been a big part of my life as a teen and even as I grew up and moved far away, we kept in touch and we cared deeply for each other. 

Even as death was overcoming her, she inspired me. She was barely able to speak, but she did, telling me how she had always loved me and even recalling some good memories we had.  She never complained, cried or even acted distressed except at what was obviously visible to me. 

I looked at her and found new meaning in the word &quot;brave&quot;. We hugged and kissed goodbye and she passed on a week later.

Sorry to digress with my own story, but the story of Professor Pausch reminded me of how wonderful it is to be able to share your last days on this earth in such a positive way with those we love and care about.  Many of us have experienced loss of someone we love or care about without a chance to say goodbye, or even blow a kiss. 

Thanks, Michelle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;A lesson before dying&#8230;Your Friday morning inspiration.&#8221;</p>
<p>A month ago I traveled to see my favorite aunt who was dying from ovarian cancer.  I wanted to say goodbye.  She wanted to see me.  She had been a big part of my life as a teen and even as I grew up and moved far away, we kept in touch and we cared deeply for each other. </p>
<p>Even as death was overcoming her, she inspired me. She was barely able to speak, but she did, telling me how she had always loved me and even recalling some good memories we had.  She never complained, cried or even acted distressed except at what was obviously visible to me. </p>
<p>I looked at her and found new meaning in the word &#8220;brave&#8221;. We hugged and kissed goodbye and she passed on a week later.</p>
<p>Sorry to digress with my own story, but the story of Professor Pausch reminded me of how wonderful it is to be able to share your last days on this earth in such a positive way with those we love and care about.  Many of us have experienced loss of someone we love or care about without a chance to say goodbye, or even blow a kiss. </p>
<p>Thanks, Michelle.</p>
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		<title>By: PBoilermaker</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2007/09/21/a-lesson-before-dying/comment-page-1/#comment-132928</link>
		<dc:creator>PBoilermaker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 02:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deepdiver, I am sorry for grouping you into the &quot;chode&quot; assessment and I see where you are coming from.

I still think bvw&#039;s posts in this thread are in poor taste, but he is his own keeper.  I still consider him chode-like in his behavior.

You are right about the members of this site...they are, from what I can tell reading posts, genuinely good people (trolls excepted).  In the future, you don&#039;t need to stand up for people like bvw.  We believe in personal responsibility here and we are expected to stand by our own comments, not make excuses for ourselves or others.

BT

Gunslingerpatriot, great post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deepdiver, I am sorry for grouping you into the &#8220;chode&#8221; assessment and I see where you are coming from.</p>
<p>I still think bvw&#8217;s posts in this thread are in poor taste, but he is his own keeper.  I still consider him chode-like in his behavior.</p>
<p>You are right about the members of this site&#8230;they are, from what I can tell reading posts, genuinely good people (trolls excepted).  In the future, you don&#8217;t need to stand up for people like bvw.  We believe in personal responsibility here and we are expected to stand by our own comments, not make excuses for ourselves or others.</p>
<p>BT</p>
<p>Gunslingerpatriot, great post.</p>
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