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		<title>By: navywife91</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2008/02/11/the-rebirth-of-shame/comment-page-1/#comment-243984</link>
		<dc:creator>navywife91</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 17:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#73 &lt;strong&gt;3Steps&lt;/strong&gt;

Sorry, I didn&#039;t come back to this thread earlier.  

I hear what you&#039;re saying and I&#039;m very sorry that happened to your child.  However, in this Jacksonville case, it was strictly a discipline issue. Also being a military family, we move and encounter these types of teachers all the time.  My oldest daughter has come home since she was in middle school and told me how she was the only one who &quot;voted&quot; for Bush or that everyone else said they hated Bush.  Of course, when she would ask &quot;why&quot;, none of them could give an answer beside &quot; I don&#039;t know, I just hate him&quot; or &quot; my parents can&#039;t stand him&quot;.  Way to raise those kids to think for themselves!  I would have had to give that teacher a swift kick...not literally of course.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#73 <strong>3Steps</strong></p>
<p>Sorry, I didn&#8217;t come back to this thread earlier.  </p>
<p>I hear what you&#8217;re saying and I&#8217;m very sorry that happened to your child.  However, in this Jacksonville case, it was strictly a discipline issue. Also being a military family, we move and encounter these types of teachers all the time.  My oldest daughter has come home since she was in middle school and told me how she was the only one who &#8220;voted&#8221; for Bush or that everyone else said they hated Bush.  Of course, when she would ask &#8220;why&#8221;, none of them could give an answer beside &#8221; I don&#8217;t know, I just hate him&#8221; or &#8221; my parents can&#8217;t stand him&#8221;.  Way to raise those kids to think for themselves!  I would have had to give that teacher a swift kick&#8230;not literally of course.</p>
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		<title>By: LMCinGA</title>
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		<dc:creator>LMCinGA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 16:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Monday, 2 13 yr old boys accidentally set fire to the county 4-H pavilion.They were playing with matches waiting on me (the 4-H person) to get there to open up the building. They were dropped off 20 minutes early to an unsupervised, locked building. Instead of pressing charges, my extension coordinator asked the sheriff to &quot;scare&quot; the guys. I asked that they be the ones to call their dads, let the dads know what had happened and ask them to come and have a conversation with us. I think that those phone calls and those conversations were the hardest things that those two have ever had to do. But we also praised the boys since they recognized that the fire was something that they could not handle and they immediately called 911 and owned up to their &quot;stupidity&quot;. It ended up being a very small fire with very little damage because they quickly called. 

Since it is a small town, yesterday at school was very hard for those two guys, yet they took the ribbing and humiliation without saying a word. I doubt that those two will ever do something like that again. Yet, they do know that redemption is available. We have not &quot;kicked&quot; them off the archery team (the practice that they were coming to) and they know that no one is &quot;mad&quot; at them. 

As the sheriff let them know quite clearly, what they did was arson and they could be spending time in a YDC for  what amounted to a 5 sec &quot;brain freeze&quot;. But,sometimes, consequences are humiliating enough to get the point across without the scarring that a &quot;record&quot; can cause.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monday, 2 13 yr old boys accidentally set fire to the county 4-H pavilion.They were playing with matches waiting on me (the 4-H person) to get there to open up the building. They were dropped off 20 minutes early to an unsupervised, locked building. Instead of pressing charges, my extension coordinator asked the sheriff to &#8220;scare&#8221; the guys. I asked that they be the ones to call their dads, let the dads know what had happened and ask them to come and have a conversation with us. I think that those phone calls and those conversations were the hardest things that those two have ever had to do. But we also praised the boys since they recognized that the fire was something that they could not handle and they immediately called 911 and owned up to their &#8220;stupidity&#8221;. It ended up being a very small fire with very little damage because they quickly called. </p>
<p>Since it is a small town, yesterday at school was very hard for those two guys, yet they took the ribbing and humiliation without saying a word. I doubt that those two will ever do something like that again. Yet, they do know that redemption is available. We have not &#8220;kicked&#8221; them off the archery team (the practice that they were coming to) and they know that no one is &#8220;mad&#8221; at them. </p>
<p>As the sheriff let them know quite clearly, what they did was arson and they could be spending time in a YDC for  what amounted to a 5 sec &#8220;brain freeze&#8221;. But,sometimes, consequences are humiliating enough to get the point across without the scarring that a &#8220;record&#8221; can cause.</p>
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		<title>By: artman1746</title>
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		<dc:creator>artman1746</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 14:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We always talk about the trees burning and never see the forest on fire.  This instance of the anti discipline forces critical of parents who discipline in the &quot;traditional&quot; way of Western civilization, is simply another &quot;tree&quot;.  The forest fire is modern liberalism&#039;s assault on western values.  And sadly, THEY ARE WINNING AND WINNING BIG!  The patriots at the Berkeley campus, shoving the left&#039;s face in the dirt is what will be required; i.e. matching their &quot;protests&quot; with those of our own will be what it takes since the media will only cover a demonstration and the dolts in the voting public think anyone who demonstrates with passion must be right in their views.  Chances are that conservatives are too busy working and taking care of their families to participate is such activities.  To our own demise!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We always talk about the trees burning and never see the forest on fire.  This instance of the anti discipline forces critical of parents who discipline in the &#8220;traditional&#8221; way of Western civilization, is simply another &#8220;tree&#8221;.  The forest fire is modern liberalism&#8217;s assault on western values.  And sadly, THEY ARE WINNING AND WINNING BIG!  The patriots at the Berkeley campus, shoving the left&#8217;s face in the dirt is what will be required; i.e. matching their &#8220;protests&#8221; with those of our own will be what it takes since the media will only cover a demonstration and the dolts in the voting public think anyone who demonstrates with passion must be right in their views.  Chances are that conservatives are too busy working and taking care of their families to participate is such activities.  To our own demise!</p>
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		<title>By: StephC</title>
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		<dc:creator>StephC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 17:25:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When my son was in 3rd grade, we had gone to the grocery store.  My husband was away at the time for training,so the kids decided to buy him a fake rose with a teddy bear glued on top to give him when he came home that weekend.  Some of the other roses had little toy aliens glued on top.  We bought a few, and went home.  When we got home, I noticed that my son had one of the aliens and was playing with it.  I realized he had not taken it off of the ones we had just bought, so I asked him where he got it, knowing full well he had stolen it.  He admitted to stealing it, so we put our shoes back on and went right back to that store.  I talked with the store manager that was there and told him I wanted him to scare my son so he won&#039;t do that ever again.  And he did.  My son was bawling, scared to death that the police were going to come and arrest him or myself because I was his mom.  My daughter (kindergarte at the time) saw the whole thing, and was scared, too.  I have never had a problem ever again with my kids stealing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When my son was in 3rd grade, we had gone to the grocery store.  My husband was away at the time for training,so the kids decided to buy him a fake rose with a teddy bear glued on top to give him when he came home that weekend.  Some of the other roses had little toy aliens glued on top.  We bought a few, and went home.  When we got home, I noticed that my son had one of the aliens and was playing with it.  I realized he had not taken it off of the ones we had just bought, so I asked him where he got it, knowing full well he had stolen it.  He admitted to stealing it, so we put our shoes back on and went right back to that store.  I talked with the store manager that was there and told him I wanted him to scare my son so he won&#8217;t do that ever again.  And he did.  My son was bawling, scared to death that the police were going to come and arrest him or myself because I was his mom.  My daughter (kindergarte at the time) saw the whole thing, and was scared, too.  I have never had a problem ever again with my kids stealing.</p>
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		<title>By: Strange tale of Modern Child Discipline &#171; Wayward Fundamentalist Christian</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2008/02/11/the-rebirth-of-shame/comment-page-1/#comment-242648</link>
		<dc:creator>Strange tale of Modern Child Discipline &#171; Wayward Fundamentalist Christian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 15:10:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 2008 by Wayward Fundamentalist Christian   I was over at Michelle Malkin&#8217;s Blog, and I saw this.  ABC News has the story of parents who are actually–gasp–acting like parents and refusing to [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 2008 by Wayward Fundamentalist Christian   I was over at Michelle Malkin&#8217;s Blog, and I saw this.  ABC News has the story of parents who are actually–gasp–acting like parents and refusing to [...]</p>
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		<title>By: 30 pcs of silver</title>
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		<dc:creator>30 pcs of silver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 13:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, if you don&#039;t discipline them, you end up with a 4-yr old cussing at his mother in the check-out line of the local A&amp;P. He wanted candy, she denied him and the cuss words starting flying from his mouth. Her rebuttal, you ask? &quot;Timmy, don&#039;t say that, that&#039;s not very nice.&quot; If I had said that to my mom. The shopping cart would have been left where it was, we would be out in the parking lot and somebody (me!) would have a red behind. 

I was a rather rebellious kid, my childhood was not ideal by any stretch of the imagination. My mom didn&#039;t discipline us because she grew up in a strict household and didn&#039;t want to pass that on to her children. Big mistake. Eventually, I turned out ok (I think! :-) ) but it was a long and arduous road I traveled because of that lack of discipline. 

There are boundaries and discipline is a duty that a parent must not shirk. These cute kids turn into adults and how you raise them as kids is paramount to how successful they become later in life. Kudos to the mom in the article for a job well done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, if you don&#8217;t discipline them, you end up with a 4-yr old cussing at his mother in the check-out line of the local A&amp;P. He wanted candy, she denied him and the cuss words starting flying from his mouth. Her rebuttal, you ask? &#8220;Timmy, don&#8217;t say that, that&#8217;s not very nice.&#8221; If I had said that to my mom. The shopping cart would have been left where it was, we would be out in the parking lot and somebody (me!) would have a red behind. </p>
<p>I was a rather rebellious kid, my childhood was not ideal by any stretch of the imagination. My mom didn&#8217;t discipline us because she grew up in a strict household and didn&#8217;t want to pass that on to her children. Big mistake. Eventually, I turned out ok (I think! <img src='http://michellemalkin.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) but it was a long and arduous road I traveled because of that lack of discipline. </p>
<p>There are boundaries and discipline is a duty that a parent must not shirk. These cute kids turn into adults and how you raise them as kids is paramount to how successful they become later in life. Kudos to the mom in the article for a job well done.</p>
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		<title>By: derel3433</title>
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		<dc:creator>derel3433</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 13:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes it&#039;s all this permissive parenting that has our country in such a pickle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes it&#8217;s all this permissive parenting that has our country in such a pickle.</p>
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		<title>By: WarTip</title>
		<link>http://michellemalkin.com/2008/02/11/the-rebirth-of-shame/comment-page-1/#comment-242441</link>
		<dc:creator>WarTip</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 04:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;On February 11th, 2008 at 7:40 pm, Leatherneck said: In the New World Order you do whatever feeeeeelllsss good.&lt;/blockquote&gt; 

Wrong! Dissent is only allowed UNTIL the New World Order. Once these people have their socialist utopia, the dissenters (read: Useful idiots) have historically been the first ones lined up on the firing wall... Quite Literally!

&lt;blockquote&gt;Freaking old hippy never did get it. She wanted me to PUNISH him for not agreeing with her. I f’n made him a CAKE. Literally.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Right on! Punishment does not work without rewards and his actions definitely warranted a reward!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>On February 11th, 2008 at 7:40 pm, Leatherneck said: In the New World Order you do whatever feeeeeelllsss good.</p></blockquote>
<p>Wrong! Dissent is only allowed UNTIL the New World Order. Once these people have their socialist utopia, the dissenters (read: Useful idiots) have historically been the first ones lined up on the firing wall&#8230; Quite Literally!</p>
<blockquote><p>Freaking old hippy never did get it. She wanted me to PUNISH him for not agreeing with her. I f’n made him a CAKE. Literally.</p></blockquote>
<p>Right on! Punishment does not work without rewards and his actions definitely warranted a reward!</p>
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		<title>By: englishqueen01</title>
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		<dc:creator>englishqueen01</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 04:12:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;She yelled and screamed at him about how he could support such horrible things as baby killers.&lt;/blockquote&gt; 

Which is especially ironic considering the Democrat&#039;s most important sacrament - abortion.

But, I digress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>She yelled and screamed at him about how he could support such horrible things as baby killers.</p></blockquote>
<p>Which is especially ironic considering the Democrat&#8217;s most important sacrament &#8211; abortion.</p>
<p>But, I digress.</p>
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		<title>By: 3Steps</title>
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		<dc:creator>3Steps</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 02:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;On February 11th, 2008 at 5:52 pm, navywife91 said: 

I think it’s pretty safe to say this 8 year old’s teacher wasn’t doing any indoctrination. However, I do have a high school freshman who encounters political conversations in one of her classes. It’s very obvious to her what side her teacher is on, but I tell her it’s fine to have a debate as long as it’s done in a respectful way.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Don&#039;t be so sure about that... 4 years ago during the 2004 election my son&#039;s 4th grade teacher (he was only 9 yo) ran a mock election in the classroom.  He was the only person that &#039;stood up for his beliefs&#039; about supporting the troops in Iraq (his dad&#039;s a Marine... err.. what else would you expect) and he backed a Republican candidate throughout the &#039;mock&#039; process.  She was a Kerry supporter from the get go.  She yelled and screamed at him about how he could support such horrible things as baby killers. In the end he was the ONLY kid in class who voted against Kerry.  She shunned him for the rest of the school year. 

Freaking old hippy never did get it.  She wanted me to PUNISH him for not agreeing with her.  I f&#039;n made him a CAKE. Literally. 

I was sooooo glad she retired so my daughter didn&#039;t get stuck with her this year.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>On February 11th, 2008 at 5:52 pm, navywife91 said: </p>
<p>I think it’s pretty safe to say this 8 year old’s teacher wasn’t doing any indoctrination. However, I do have a high school freshman who encounters political conversations in one of her classes. It’s very obvious to her what side her teacher is on, but I tell her it’s fine to have a debate as long as it’s done in a respectful way.</p></blockquote>
<p>Don&#8217;t be so sure about that&#8230; 4 years ago during the 2004 election my son&#8217;s 4th grade teacher (he was only 9 yo) ran a mock election in the classroom.  He was the only person that &#8217;stood up for his beliefs&#8217; about supporting the troops in Iraq (his dad&#8217;s a Marine&#8230; err.. what else would you expect) and he backed a Republican candidate throughout the &#8216;mock&#8217; process.  She was a Kerry supporter from the get go.  She yelled and screamed at him about how he could support such horrible things as baby killers. In the end he was the ONLY kid in class who voted against Kerry.  She shunned him for the rest of the school year. </p>
<p>Freaking old hippy never did get it.  She wanted me to PUNISH him for not agreeing with her.  I f&#8217;n made him a CAKE. Literally. </p>
<p>I was sooooo glad she retired so my daughter didn&#8217;t get stuck with her this year.</p>
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		<title>By: Dimsdale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dimsdale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Oh, another good one … 17 … I was increasingly reclusive and wouldn’t come out of my room. (I am an Air Force brat and we had moved to a new school my senior year. I really, really disliked my parents.)

My dad took the door off the hinges. It was only for a week or so. But it got the point across. &quot; 

This is slightly off topic, but the door removal trick also works with nonpaying renters: a friend of mine simply took the front door off the apartment he was renting.  Told the miscreants that he didn&#039;t have the money to &quot;fix&quot; the door because they didn&#039;t pay their rent.

The rent got paid.  The door got &quot;fixed.&quot;  I still laugh about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Oh, another good one … 17 … I was increasingly reclusive and wouldn’t come out of my room. (I am an Air Force brat and we had moved to a new school my senior year. I really, really disliked my parents.)</p>
<p>My dad took the door off the hinges. It was only for a week or so. But it got the point across. &#8221; </p>
<p>This is slightly off topic, but the door removal trick also works with nonpaying renters: a friend of mine simply took the front door off the apartment he was renting.  Told the miscreants that he didn&#8217;t have the money to &#8220;fix&#8221; the door because they didn&#8217;t pay their rent.</p>
<p>The rent got paid.  The door got &#8220;fixed.&#8221;  I still laugh about it.</p>
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		<title>By: TK-421</title>
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		<dc:creator>TK-421</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wait dispite the kids acceptance of this and most likely any rejection to take it to court the &quot;village&quot; will want action. It&#039;ll go to a review board. But it is nice to see a parent acting like one. Discipline isn&#039;t ment to be nice, its ment to be harsh to a degree and ingrain respect. You ask me something like this would be effective if started early. However on a teen that never got much less than a rebuke by words an no cell for a week it would end in trouble. Then again in singapore they still publicly cane people and it works wonders.

Start early :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wait dispite the kids acceptance of this and most likely any rejection to take it to court the &#8220;village&#8221; will want action. It&#8217;ll go to a review board. But it is nice to see a parent acting like one. Discipline isn&#8217;t ment to be nice, its ment to be harsh to a degree and ingrain respect. You ask me something like this would be effective if started early. However on a teen that never got much less than a rebuke by words an no cell for a week it would end in trouble. Then again in singapore they still publicly cane people and it works wonders.</p>
<p>Start early <img src='http://michellemalkin.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Leatherneck</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leatherneck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was in Third grade when they took away school prayer. From then on our public school systems have been under attack by secural humanists.

Every thing secular humanists teach our children is not what G-d told us what to do with our children.

There will be more school shootings, more children giving birth, and more drug abuse, and more individuals growing up not understanding right from wrong.

In the New World Order you do whatever feeeeeelllsss good.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was in Third grade when they took away school prayer. From then on our public school systems have been under attack by secural humanists.</p>
<p>Every thing secular humanists teach our children is not what G-d told us what to do with our children.</p>
<p>There will be more school shootings, more children giving birth, and more drug abuse, and more individuals growing up not understanding right from wrong.</p>
<p>In the New World Order you do whatever feeeeeelllsss good.</p>
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		<title>By: RenaOConnor</title>
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		<dc:creator>RenaOConnor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 23:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;On February 11th, 2008 at 3:25 pm, Bob69 said:

Shame and guilt are a definite improvement over physical abuse. Only the pysc crowd are concerned about the ‘mental aspects’ of holding a damn sign.

Sorry Bas***ds.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Im a psych major and don&#039;t agree with Hunziker one bit. Not all shrinks agree as a matter of fact and you&#039;ll find many aren&#039;t so stuck on the &quot;soft&quot; approach to punishment. 

In response to the article/parent...

I quite agree with what this parent did and would do it/have done similar with my own children. And as someone mentioned, its a lot better than beating the heck out of their child, and a lot less demeaning than making a child wear a sigh saying they are &quot;a pig&quot; for eating some brownies they weren&#039;t supposed to have. 

I think this was a more positive approach encouraging discipline and responsibility. I recall when our schools would do similar punishment however not by use of signs but putting a &quot;dunce&quot; hat on the child or they would have to stand at the chalkboard with their nose to the board. Its just as effective and most kids didn&#039;t act out again or pulled the same stunt again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>On February 11th, 2008 at 3:25 pm, Bob69 said:</p>
<p>Shame and guilt are a definite improvement over physical abuse. Only the pysc crowd are concerned about the ‘mental aspects’ of holding a damn sign.</p>
<p>Sorry Bas***ds.</p></blockquote>
<p>Im a psych major and don&#8217;t agree with Hunziker one bit. Not all shrinks agree as a matter of fact and you&#8217;ll find many aren&#8217;t so stuck on the &#8220;soft&#8221; approach to punishment. </p>
<p>In response to the article/parent&#8230;</p>
<p>I quite agree with what this parent did and would do it/have done similar with my own children. And as someone mentioned, its a lot better than beating the heck out of their child, and a lot less demeaning than making a child wear a sigh saying they are &#8220;a pig&#8221; for eating some brownies they weren&#8217;t supposed to have. </p>
<p>I think this was a more positive approach encouraging discipline and responsibility. I recall when our schools would do similar punishment however not by use of signs but putting a &#8220;dunce&#8221; hat on the child or they would have to stand at the chalkboard with their nose to the board. Its just as effective and most kids didn&#8217;t act out again or pulled the same stunt again.</p>
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		<title>By: bear1909</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 23:06:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;&lt;strong&gt;If you are gonna be stupid, you better be tough.&quot;&lt;/strong&gt;
                 -My Dad to me at 9

It worked.  The article said something about disciplining your kids without &quot;fear of reprisals&quot;.  From whom?

Some porn addict in open-toed shoes from Yale?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;<strong>If you are gonna be stupid, you better be tough.&#8221;</strong><br />
                 -My Dad to me at 9</p>
<p>It worked.  The article said something about disciplining your kids without &#8220;fear of reprisals&#8221;.  From whom?</p>
<p>Some porn addict in open-toed shoes from Yale?</p>
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